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Respect begins at home and the roots of it for children start with watching how parents show respect for each other. It is important for parents to teach respect to their child and once learned, this will carry through to other people the child meets in his or her life.

Some children do not understand the concepts of self control and respect as well as others do. If a child is disrespectful to a parent, refuses to listen to the parent, is rebellious to any type of authority, smart mouths the parent or acts out in inappropriate ways then it is imperative that the parent(s) take the relevant steps to teach the child how to respect himself and others as well as how to respect authority and how to develop positive character traits.

Teaching respect to a child is one of the most important things a parent will ever do. It is important to keep in mind that respect is an attitude and also a way of life. Having respect helps an individual to succeed in life.

Before teaching your child respect, you must show your child respect. Do this by being honest with her as well as being trusting and fair towards her. Show your manners to your child and be as positive as possible. As well, be reliable and always be willing to lend your ear to your child, no matter what the situation.

Children model behaviors they see their parents do so make sure your children witness you doing positive things such as following rules and obeying laws, and showing caring and concern for other people, animals and the world at large. Teach your child the difference between a positive and a negative role model and when you see examples of negative ones, for example, in your neighborhood, in books or on television, take the opportunity to discuss this with your child.

Other Tips for Teaching Children to be Respectful

-When you set rules for your child, explain the reason behind them and refrain from saying, “It is this way because I told you so.” This means nothing to children. Give them something that makes sense to them.

-Teach your children how to respect themselves. Once self-respect and a sense of self-worth are in place, this sets the groundwork for developing the ability to respect other people. 

-Encourage your children's independence and help develop in them a sense of self-reliance and responsibility. Believe in their ability to be successful.

If you are a respectful person then teaching respect to your children will not be a difficult task.